Elle Darcy on Instagram: "Can you imagine where we’d be collectively as women if we were taught to pursue multi-units with the same pressure we were told to pursue marriage?! I just started the last year of my 30s, and I have to tell you a secret I’ve discovered about this decade: it was never about “settling down” — it’s about settling IN (to yourself). It’s about building a life so secure, so abundant, and so deeply yours that love (when it comes) is a choice rooted in self-created worth. For