Signs My Wife Is Cheating. You create the life you don't want. Looking for proof that your wife is cheating… Asking questions, leading to prove you're just insecure. Proving you don't even care to take responsibility for you… Your actions, reactions, questions and pity party… Blaming your wife for not loving you right. For not trying as hard as you… None of that is attractive. None of that creates a safe place for your wife to even love you… Let alone, be unapologetically herself and able to lov